“I first found out about eHarmony.com through a friend who meet her now-husband on the platform. At first I was sceptical after all there are so many dating apps out there and most just feel endless swiping with no real connection. But something stuck with me. She said, "eHarmony doesn't just match you with someone who actually fits you." That wowed me.
I started using the eHarmony about eight months ago after feeling completely burnt out by the typical dating app experience. I was looking for something deeper something that actually aligned with my values and long term goals. From the moment i joined the experience felt different. eHarmony took the time to learn who who I really was through their comprehensive personality assessment I began receiving high quality matches people who were not only serious about relationships but actually shared my core values and lifestyle .
When I first joined eHarmony eight months ago , I made it a point to check check in daily. At first, i spent about 20-30 minutes a day going through matches, reading profile, and started conversation. It became part of my daily routine, not something I felt pressured to do, but something I wanted to do because the quality of people i was meeting was so much better than what I'd experience elsewhere.
What I found most useful about eHarmony.com is its focus on compatibility and quality over quantity. On like other apps that throw endless profile at you, eHarmony actually takes the time to understand who you are through it's detailed personality assessment. That's what makes the matches so relevant, they're not just based on appearance or vague interests, but on deep rooted values, communication styles and long term goals.
While my overall experience with eHarmony has been very positive there are a couple of things I think could improve.
One of the main drawbacks for me was the limited ability to search or filter matches manually. eHarmony's system is based heavily on their algorithm which usually does a good job, but sometimes I wished I could take a more active role in discovering potential outside of the suggestion list.
Another thing i noticed is that communication is limited unless both people are paid subscribers. This can slow down the process and occasionally leads to missed communications if someone interesting can't respond.
Lastly, while the personality assessment is thorough and useful, it's quite time consuming up front. I understand why it's necessary and in hindsight, it was worth it but i could see how it might turn some people off before they even get started.
That said non of these were deal breakers for me.
If you're genuinely looking for a meaningful, long-term relationship and you're tired of games, ghosting and endless swiping, i highly recommend giving eHarmony a try
Date of this experience: 2024-09-12”
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